Tradehaven – Girl Interrupted
Most of my friends are aware that I have decided to take a break from work. It is definitely uncommon amongst people in my trade to give up the paycheck and future bonuses until the fat lady sings, i.e. either with a heart attack on the desk or marching orders for retrenchment.
I thought that way too, being the Singaporean that I am. And, admittedly, it is a darn lot harder these days for a young Singaporean to get that trading role. Until some are willing to turn monsters to get there. I know, I worked with one before.
The trouble is that I always saw myself as the accidental tourist on the trading floor. Lord knows why people read what I write when I had never heard of Goldman Sachs until that day, 16 years ago, I stepped into the dealing room. So the tourist became a feature, then a fossil over time. Fashioned a nice boat, hit a few milestones and then cruised along. Learnt a thing or two about trading bonds, rates and stuff, learnt a lot more about human nature and then, learnt more about bonds, rates and stuff through understanding human nature. A sort of half way point to Nirvana, I suppose.
So I knew I had to break the routine for a bit, switch the pace and decipher this life thing out.
Immediate goals will be to focus on the blog and the website to come, just to keep myself and my over fertile mind occupied, and perhaps launch an investor club in the future.
It is an intimidating prospect indeed, a self imposed isolation with just the company whatever friends that are left, going with the flow of the wind and tide till I land on the next shore, with a naughty 12 year old in tow.
I found the most rebel song I could think of from the 90’s.
To Infinity and Beyond !
And more posts to come !!!!
You strike a nerve. Perhaps I may too be headed on the same course, though having two in tow warrants greater contemplation. But times are changing, cruising could lead to wreckage.
I salute your bravado. Fortune favors the brave. Life’s a journey, not a destination. I will be camped at this space. Good luck.
Dear Folks,
Let’s make some money !!!
And together we will !!
Cheers !!!
Forgive the bad spelling. Bravery I meant.
Hi Tradehaven,
Have always enjoyed your writings and those of the rest here. All the best in whatever you do.
Tradehaven,
You definitely make the right call. Nothing beats spending time with the kids, trust me a few years down the road and they dun even want you to fetch them from school. Savor the moment and good luck!
🙂 keep THIS going!!
Dont publish my comments la. I shy!
oops just saw this !
Don’t worry, you are not alone. There are many out there, and I made that move in Jan this year, after 17 years in the market. Believe me, it is not as scary as I thought it would be, and am enjoying every minute of it. Sure, less money to go around, but $$$ is not everything. The family spends less, and kids grow up more appreciative of the value of money. We are closer as a family too.
I wish you well in your future endeavour.
Good luck, all the best!
Woohoo…
Thanks for all the support… more to come !!
TH,
Stumbled upon this blog a few weeks ago and I have enjoyed your thoughtful commentaries & insightful views. Wishing you all the best in your future … & may the force be with you 😉
Yo Sped,
We just got started here !! keep the feedback and comments coming !
With all my children grown up now, I wish the clock could turn back and I could do what you have just chosen to do. I am certain you are wise to put your kid on top of all things at this stage of life, wishing you all the best and thank you for the posts all these while.
Hi GN,
Haha. Yes, it is a liberating experience so far. Hopefully, the boredom won’t set it.
Thanks for all the support ! More great posts and ideas to come.
Good luck !